thanks. I may stop posting to rysmom, idk. I have at times, felt she was not strong enough to be here...if you kwim.
But then I worry that a few years down the road, if she doesn't get some real help, she'll be on the streets, on our dime. And that bugs me. 4 years is a long time to still have panic attacks that stop your entire day, b/c you think you saw the back of OW's head from 50 yards away...
If the only way for her to get "real help" is to file, then she needs to save herself. I fear she's losing it big time, in a slow dragged out way. God help their son.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016