Thanks everyone for their comments and concern. I've know for quite some time that the long reaching effects of 9/11 were far more than financial. Eric, my weekend was good. I painted my fireplace, and the color really makes the wallpaper POP. Now I've got to do the same to the dining room and have library panels/wainscoting cut for the bottom of the walls below the chair rail. I think it will look quite elegant with my paper plates. Really, I'm not feeling down, and not as dumbfuddled as I was when I first heard. The end result was the same. He hurt - correction, he let HER hurt our daughters, and therefore our grandchildren. D33 defriended him AGAIN and also did the same for grandson 10. She says, they don't need that sh!t. When you pull up his FB page, you get a picture of HER. Go figure.
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011