lc - I was thinking about you this afternoon and was wondering if you and your H ever went out on dates. I believe you said you have four children, so I starting thinking it was likely you weren't able to date alone very often.

Heck, we only have one child and we only went out on dates about 3-4 times a year if we were lucky, and I think that contributed to the ILYBNILWY speech my wife gave me last spring.

The funny thing is we've have more dating the past 2-3 months than we did all last year. We have been having a WONDERFUL time on them, which makes the divorce even more confusing. I think she still has some feelings but for some reason is working hard to try to suppress them.


Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012