Somewhere between filing and D

[MichelleLT]

NC is the only choice you have at the moment. Because the way I see it, it's the only chance you have.

She calls you when she's hurting, when she's down. You still have a lot of emotional connection. She's having just as much trouble detaching, and I'm sure is missing the texts and talks. You were always the one who understood how debilitating her migraines were, who was sympathetic and helpful. How many times did she say that no one else really understood?

But she filed for D. You can't pursue her right now, that'll just push her away, make the D more certain.

Her own mind will create the doubts for you.