I actually do not disagree with TAMF okay….maybe a little.
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I say take his money
This is the context of where you really need it and or it is for the kids…then I say go for it. If not, then I say figure out how to do it on your own.
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who made really crappy life decisions
I agree with this statement but it also goes both ways. We the LBS’s played a role in this..some more than others and sometimes we forget this. My only point is….do a give a man a fish when he is hungry or teach him to fish? If anyone the LBS or the WAS end the R on a good terms, then yes I always believe in being able to help someone else….my only exception would be if that helps comes with an expectation. Just my male 2 cents and has nothing to do with money per se and more to do with becoming independent and responsible for ourselves. Even if I had a good R with my XW, I doubt that I would look to her to help me. Why? Cause then when or how will I ever learn to do it myself. As with everything there are exceptions to the rule … Regards, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
