Endeavor:

My mind's foggy a bit. Not sure if i replied on your sitch.

First off, sorry you are going through this much drama you really do not need. Especially that your kids are going through this.

Seems like the NUTs book did make some impact on your H.

I am not sure where you stand on your R with your H. But if you choose to stay, your H has to make a choice of being a strong man the family deserves. I guess right now he has to patch up with the Kids and your R with him.

All his actions seem to be reactions to fear. Fear that you don't love him. He just needs to take ownership of what has happened and restart his life new. Irrespective of what the consequences are gonna be. He still is going to be playing a role model for the kids and they really don't deserve this.

Be strong through this. Your kids need you and your lost H definitely needs you.


BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...