I'm a little confused... Last week (or so), the two of you were in court, and now she's kissing you after she got jealous that you were flirting with a bartender?
It sounds like both of you are still emotionally invested in this marriage, yet you are still moving forward with the divorce. Why? Is she insisting on it, or is she just as confused about what she wants as you are?
If she's insisting on moving forward with the divorce, then I would start setting some boundaries and sticking with them. Let her see what divorce is really going to be like. Go a little dark, make her miss you.
If she isn't sure about going through with the divorce at this point, then I suggest you both agree to put it on hold and get some counseling together and one on one.
Either way, keep working on emotional detachment and making YOU a better person. What are your goals for your marriage at this point? What are your own personal goals?
I don't mean to lecture you like an old school marm (you're older than me anyway! ) , but you need to figure some things out so you can move forward in the right way.
KEEP US UPDATED! love & hugs, lc4 (your fellow Texan)
Last week (or so), the two of you were in court, and now she's kissing you after she got jealous that you were flirting with a bartender? 
) , but you need to figure some things out so you can move forward in the right way. 