when you see her, even though you are in such pain b/c what has really happened to YOUR hopes for a recon, are that they are now at least for the near future =dashed...I get that.
But you knew she'd slept with him so...that's not new pain. The new pain is the loss of hope you feel right now. I get that. But you have to see her...
you can say or project things like "sure been a weird tough year for you"(ME)
btw, CS, being pregnant with ANYONE's baby while your dad dies, is tough.
the added crap must have made her nuts. Be as calm as you can be.
The best dad for d as you can be. The best YOU...and like always, leave the results up to God.
If she plays up the "happy" stuff, just focus on d and get out as soon as possible.
If she plays up the other side (the truth at one point was she didn't want to be pregnant with OM's baby...)
You can admit that you are both hurt by this news but that you are both doing what's right by the kid I guess...letting her go and moving on with your life as a single dad to d...
see what happens a few years down the road...or don't.
Does any of this feel authentic for you?
((( )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
