Week 1 of separation is going ok. I am a little miffed that W has basically let the OM move into the apartment, thus now exposing my D to the affair. She has basically taken down all pictures of me, but left the perserved bouquet from our wedding up. Weird.
I have been trying to work on me this week, which included setting up my new digs (the old record player came out and I got to groove to some tunes while unpacking), spending some high quality time with my D, and watching some football.
The W called me last night to ask how D was and what she did all day yesterday, saying that she missed her. I should have just let the vociemail pick it up, but thought that it might be about D's care for tomorrow. I think in the future I will just start screening her calls, so i have more time to work on me and I can stop the pattern of her always expecting me to come running whenever she pleases.
M:35 W:33 M: 5 yrs. Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10 D Final: 8/7/12