DG,

I just read a lot of your posts (not all, but a lot) and I wanted to extend my support. I
n reading where you were when you first started posting and now, I think you have made a lot of progress in working on GAL. I am glad to hear that you have had a great summer and are focusing on moving on.

As you said in your post to my thread, we have a lot of things in common re. the problems in our marriage and what got us here, and I am glad to find someone who I can relate to. I feel my sit is bleak compared to yours. My H is firm on his desire to move on w/o me and that he doesn't love me. I feel that at least yours may be stuck, but has not shut the door on you.

As everyone says here, patience is the strongest virtue. The one thing I try to remind myself is that this is a marathon, not a sprint. And in my case, I know that I'll need a miracle to save my M and if it happens it will take YEARS...

I hope it's not the same for you. Hang in there and keep focusing on your life!


Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D