I agree with you, sgctxok, but I am not at all trying to bully rysmom into getting legal advice. I know she will get advice when she is ready, I know she will file if she decides on that. I am concerned for her well-being, that is all. I have a bit in common with her, and thought being a friend was a good thing to be. I have never even encouraged her to file for D; quite the opposite in fact. If rysmom asks for our advice, shouldn't we give it as far as we are able, if she wants a sounding board, shouldn't we be it?
Otherwise, sgtxok, I appreciate the advice and comments I have read of yours all over this board, and I will also thank you in the future to smack me with your words if you feel I am getting out of hand.
Rysmom, also sorry for the hijack, and I hope you are having a lovely Monday afternoon.
