OK, a couple of tread carefullys later...

Just got a quick email from W:
How is your Monday going?

As you know I really don't like Monday's! I wanted to see how you are doing after yesterday's conversation? I felt better yesterday but today is a little harder.

Well I just wanted to say hi. Thanks again for the beer last night and the football company.


This is the first general reaching out email she has sent in I really don't know how long. I think my heart actually skipped a beat when I saw it come up. Guess she took it to heart when I told her she didn't have to be a stranger!

Yay, I get to practice a little DB smile One of my internal goals was to reestablish friendly emails with W, and I would know that the DBing was working if she sent me a general 'how are you doing' message. Looks like a possible good start here.

I'll take a little while to compose something, validate her feelings about Mondays and our convo and tell her one or two short things about my day. Nothing deep, nothing lengthy, just a response back to a friend asking how I'm doing.

Have I mentioned that I live an interesting life yet?


Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011