Yes - less certainty. I've been told the same thing by people who know my sitch. I'm the stable home while W knows she can rely on me to be there. Need more mystery and a bit of a chance that perhaps, just perhaps we WON'T be there when they may/may not want us back.
It's SO hard -- detaching, but it's for us and it does help...ever so slowly.
I'll send good energy your way today.
Me (f): 45 W(f) 35 T: 13 y C: S4 adopted at birth 6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up 8-28-11 OW confirmed
