Yes it is. I guess it's bound to happen though. We are working on ourselves so I'm sure things that either our w wanted to do with us or wanted us to change about ourselves will happen.
It'll be interesting if it comes up in conversation.
Val, I think you're right. Things like these are bound to happen from time to time.
It will come up in conversation. I will bring it up. However, I need to be careful - as much as I want to rub it in, I think that is the exact wrong thing to do. I will just mention it in passing as something positive for our S, with the hopes that will bring a smile to her face.
Originally Posted By: realormakebeliev
JB, that is so cool about your back yard party. Glad you had so much fun, sounds like you have 'the' house in your neighborhood!
Well, at least it was last night. It just worked out that way. I can't really take any credit for it - it just happened. It was really nice for my S.
Originally Posted By: realormakebeliev
Another thought on your sitch- I could be wrong, but as long as its been since she saw the L, I would have thought you would have received something by now (I'm basing this on my own experience talking to a lawyer, maybe others here can weigh in on that). I don't want to give you false hope, but it seems like she might be hesitating to 'pull the trigger'. Perhaps a sign that she is moving in a positive direction?
TBH, I am trying really hard not to think too much about it. If it think too much about it, it'll start driving me crazy. I think there are a myriad of possibilities, and this is one of them. One thing that is a fact: she was very h3ll-bent on it earlier this year and that doesn't appear to be the case anymore. She really hasn't shown any concrete signs that she's changed her mind, though. If this what she focuses on a regular basis, then, that's an empty life. I'd rather have my life right now.
Originally Posted By: Luckyclover
Lol - yeah... that's the way the cookie crumbles indeed. So many things are going to happen in my life that H wishes he would have been around for.
Lucky, yes - these kind of things will happen from time to time the more you focus on becoming the best possible you. Your H will miss out.
I think there are a myriad of possibilities, and this is one of them. One thing that is a fact: she was very h3ll-bent on it earlier this year and that doesn't appear to be the case anymore. She really hasn't shown any concrete signs that she's changed her mind, though. If this what she focuses on a regular basis, then, that's an empty life. I'd rather have my life right now.
