Kissak
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I dont ever bash my sons daddy

I am quite sure you do not. Here is okay though …bash away….
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Maybe I should consider therapy for him

I think it would be a good idea. It gives him a place and person to speak to about what he may be feeling without fear of hurting you or your H. I would let H know and see if he cares to alternate taking your son.
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Finances are horrible right now

Join the crowd…but they will get better.
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We had to deal with the hurricane which hit our area really hard. Lots of people homeless right now still...living in tents and stuff....homes flooded....its horrible here...which has affected my business badly.

I am soo sorry to hear that…glad you and the fam are okay.
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I didnt ask my H for help, but he knew I needed help

I wanted to say this to you the last time you posted something like this (I think several months ago)….
What is that Aretha Franklin song…..you know….R…..E…..S……P…..xxxxxx
Kissak, IMO, in order to break free from Mr. Crazy….you may want to reconsider taking any help from him. I can understand it is hard and that I would not want the kids to suffer…but any moneys for YOU should not be taken. It gives him the impression (at least IMO) that he still has some form of “right” over you and by taking the cash you help validate that feeling. I also believe the sooner that you start standing and doing for YOU by YOU….you will be more willing to go tell him to F off and to stop sending you the text.
That said, if ya need it I understand…take the time to figure out how you can become LESS dependent on HIM and more dependent on YOU.
Ok?
Eric


"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter".
"Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!"
"Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans