You're entitled to your opinion on that. I don't believe in GAMES either. But I don't want to be a "Beck and Call" girl and I said that from the beginning when I was dating. The truth is - everyone wants what is not that easy to obtain. We live in a "throwaway" society - like it or not. We know that from how easily our spouses tossed us to the curb. I'm just saying that a little "uncertainty" and a little bit of mystery adds to the intrigue and that is part of building a sustainable relationship.

Well rounded life is what we should all be after. The best we can have for ourselves with respect to family, lovelife (if we want one), career, recreation, spirituality etc. As my Dad always taught me - "everything is good in moderation". BALANCE When I become obsessed about something - I lose my balance. I did that in my first Post D R. I'm doing it now with something else. And then other things slide. Silly but easily happens.

Barb