I was DB'ing but just discovered an affair

[NTX_Dad]

Had a fun but weird weekend. The stbx bought us concert tickets for Saturday night. I really wanted to go but all of my friends told me it was a bad idea.

I ended up going and we have a wonderful time. I started flirting with the bartender and waitress and my stbx was all for it at first, and even took pictures, but as the evening went on, she started to get jealous. At one point she started putting her arm around me and even kissed me a couple of times.

We got home so late, she ended up staying the night, so I went to the guest bed room.

Her and our D8 stopped by again last night for a little bit and they ended up spending the night again. After D8 went to bed, we had a long conversation about stuff. She was telling me how she's not interested in dating at all, her priority was being a good mom, and her second priority was just being herself.

She even said a couple of times she thinks there's a really good chance we will end up back together in a year or two.

I'm not sure how I feel about that. I think my emotions would welcome that very much.... I still love her of course. But on the other hand, logic tells me that I shouldn't be available and I would worry she's would be a WAS in the future. If we were ever to get back together, even if it was today, I would want it to be a new courtship and would also want some M counseling to figure out how we got to this point.