V, that is so true! My H is always commenting that I keep doing things he always wanted me to and why didn't I do that when we were married?
JB, that is so cool about your back yard party. Glad you had so much fun, sounds like you have 'the' house in your neighborhood!
Another thought on your sitch- I could be wrong, but as long as its been since she saw the L, I would have thought you would have received something by now (I'm basing this on my own experience talking to a lawyer, maybe others here can weigh in on that). I don't want to give you false hope, but it seems like she might be hesitating to 'pull the trigger'. Perhaps a sign that she is moving in a positive direction?
