Thanks Barb, that helps. Yes, this is a rollercoaster ride for me, I get caught up in the new good feelings and when I sense the other person is enjoying it too...well, it's hard to contain myself! I did text her last night and just said "hope I didn't sound pushy re: time for me, I'm just teasing. I'm cool" I'll leave contact to her today. But, I do have a life outside of her and I am living it. She also knows what I do cuz we talk about our days. I go to church, meditation group, have lunch with friends, saw my Mom and hit the racetrack. Don't worry I'm not sitting at home waiting for her texts or phone calls...I like them but I'm living my life. I'll be fine. As far as male/female communication we actually did discuss that last Sunday and she said "you realize we're not just talking about male/ female communication, we're talking about you and me" I said "I'm completely aware of the fact" Anyway, I will cool my jets! I'll be OK. Thanks again.