Day by Day....

[kissak]

Lorie, she has gotten her lawyer and has had him served with a contempt order. She has gotten to talk to her only once. He has called SS on her saying there is domestic violence in the home. SS has already checked it out and found that to be bogus. HE is using what he can to get to her. She was supposed to go to court this morning but HIS lawyer called hers last night and said he couldnt be in court till Tuesday. PRobably to figure out what he was going to do to get out of this mess. Their daughter has not been in school in a week now. He didnt even get a lawyer till Friday. Hopefully she will be back with her mother tomorrow. She is asking for supervised visits from now on and also for him to pay all attorney fees and that the LAW can be inforced to remove her from his home if he does this again. Also her lawyer said that they will NOT be talking to her daughter at court!!


Now, as for my sitch....my 10 year old son come crying to me last night after we all went to bed....I asked what was wrong and he "I dont want you and daddy to get a divorce". That broke my heart. I told him that it was ok, that it wasnt going to change things around there, it would only be a piece of paper, we would still be his parents and we both loved him. He said He knew that...then fell asleep on my bed....I cried myself to sleep. How can someone make dumb choices like this and hurt their own children???

I told my H what he said....all he could say is he understood how it could break my heart. Then later texts me "hugs" and "luv ya". SO SICK of that stuff. I dont want his hugs or love anymore!!!! That will NOT fix a dang thing!!!!