Heard from H again, this time he sent me a nasty gram via text. He said he had tried to call me at D's bedtime and I didn't answer. I was on my way back from my brother's when all of this was going on. I told him I didn't have any calls on my phone and I guess I was out of range. He kept hammering me about it, saying I was doing it because I was mad, etc. I told him he could check the phone records to verify I had my phone on (I had sent a couple of texts during the same time he said he was trying to call).
He told me not long ago that he was 'documenting' everything (presumably for a potential court date) so I am a little paranoid of being accused of alienation- crazy, especially since the day before I had D call him before bedtime.
To make a long story short, after all his drama I looked and saw that he had called my old cell number which is no longer in service. He apologized, but then said I should admit when I was wrong because there were not any texts during the time frame we were talking about (I'm sorry, you called the wrong number and that's relevant how??). The texts took longer to show up because they were multimedia texts, which I also pointed out.
Overall, I was calm, didn't take the bait other than to defend myself. He did say something about that I can't forgive. I asked him what was I supposed to forgive? His response was 'nothing'. He does this when he wants me to pursue the issue, but in true 180 form (normally I would not let that go) I ignored it and didn't respond.
I read a post on here somewhere that the WAS mind is truly mysterious... how very true!
