Punkin, I can only imagine how you feel/felt when XH married OW. Here is the thing…. In a nutshell, stop thinking about it. Stop trying to understand the why’s. Accept, that he is batchit crazy right now and really is no longer (at least not now) the same man. You are a spunky strong women and I would love to see you focus more on you and your plans…i.e. where is the next vacation, how is the new places coming along, how are the grandkids? Based on your thread title….you are swimming just fine. How was your weekend?
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
