NNP,

A few months after the formal separation with my ex-W I decided to try the Match.com thing. I met someone who immediately latched (for lack of a better term) on to me and it scared the living you know what out of me. It took me several weeks to untangle myself from her. She was a nice lady she just was looking for an immediate husband. Wanted to introduce me to her daughter after just a couple of dates. Anyway, I was really not ready to date so I went back into self isolation and hibernation. I recently came back out and am seeing someone who is a wonderful person who simply adores me. My concern now is that she is definitely more into me than I am into her and I don't know if it's because I am still not ready or if the "chemistry" is just not there for us. Before we started dating she was a good friend of mine and I don't want to hurt her at all so I keep hoping that my attraction will grow. I enjoy her company and doing things together. Sorry probably more information than you were asking :-).

BA