I've got 54 days to receive a miracle.

[ericmsant2]

Tad

The question is: if he keeps arguing with her about this whole situation, could it make things worse?

1) He is allowed to tell her how he feels.
2) What is wrong with her feeling the consequences of HER choices?
3) Instead of focusing on what your son is doing and saying to HER…maybe you should focus on the R between you and him, what he says to you and stay the f*ck out of the middle of them too.
4) Your job is NOT to fix the R between your W and your son. Your job is to not say anything or do anything that would make the R worse.

Wish I knew how long this lasts.

You and a lot of other people.

I'm really dreading our court date. It is set for October 14th.

Stop worry about it so much (although I do understand). It will be what it will be. I assume you have told your L what you want and need from the process. Trust that what is to be will be. Trust that although you may not understand it right now, that God has all of this under control.

I've also had brief moments of happiness, but they are only brief. Very brief.

What were you doing when you had these moments of happiness? Whatever it was…keep doing it. The sadness will go away in time IF YOU let it.

Still want her back......

WANT OR NEED?

God Bless,
Eric