Shall I serve him with divorce papers now before he goes to another address that I don't know? I really don't want to divorce him but I'm thinking it might get harder and more expensive if a process server has to find him. I'm so confused. Somebody give me some advice. There is only 3 weeks left and I'm desperate to do something. Or shall I just wait for him to file the divorce? I wish someone would advice me soon. I would rather save my marriage. Can you tell my confusion and hurt right now?
M 45 H 44 Married 9/09 Seperated 9/10 Not yet filed for divorce 1/11 - H meets OW in another state 9/7/11 - H tells me he is moving to another state on 10/1/11
