I've had a good weekend, I've had the kids from Saturday and really enjoyed being with them.
I still seen and spoke to my wife loads, although I haven't called her??? She is always calling me about nothing really?, I 've been to the house quite a bit with her asking could I drop something off, or pick something up, I just smile and do it now, I think she is just using it as an excuse to see me, I maybe miles away with that thought, but it seems she is too keen, and it also make me feel better if I think that!!
I had to take my daughter to a party yesterday, it was my wifes nieces, when I got there all my wifes family were there, I thought this could be bad!!!, as they all know I've not been the best husband at times!!!, even my wifes mother and father were there!!! potential nightmare!!!
But I was really shocked, they were all really nice to me!!!, really nice!, they all commented on how well I looked and weight loss!, and we just chatted generally about the kids and work etc, it was really nice?
My wife didn't go has she had something to do?, but again was this another "test", in the past I wouldn't have took my daughter to a party, but this time I was totally fine about it when she asked me.
I even got a text off her when I was there asking if I had dropped our daughter off, she must have been surprised when I text back, I'm here talking to your parents!!!!!
I was talking to my wifes sister, who again was full of compliments, nobody mentioned my wife or "us" all the time I was there, I was pleased really as it might have got awkward at times, my wifes sister even give me a cuddle and a kiss when I left!!!!!
Later my wife called to ask me about the kids, and was asking about what her parents had said, I just played it down saying nothing really just chit-chat, which it was, but they were nice to me, and I didn't really expect that?
She called again later to ask about the kids and we spoke about a few things, again all nice, and this morning she has already called me to ask about the kids and me!!
Its all going well at the moment, I don't want to get carried away, we are getting on great, and speak daily.
As I've said before this does not sound like a person who is finshed with me, I've felt that in the past when our only communication was " get the kids to call me" in a text!!!!
