Chaos, i think we are co dependent because we are both not big social creatures, and we have been through so much together i think we clung a little. We both have family issues and backgrounds. When he said he wanted to start going out with friends i was surprised but not angry. I just hate feeling threatened ny other women. Today he said, "you dont want me talking to other women at work, but i see men and women who are married, sitting together and talking...its normal" i said it is normal, but to pursue a r with one is wrong...and he did agree on that.

I guess if you are not happy in your m, you will he tempted by females at the work place.

Tamf, that did put a smile on my face smile i cannot deny that dropping all this weight has been a bad thing. It almost signifies something....dropping pounds and dropping old ways. And yeah i had some weifht to lose lol