I wish we could just take all the OW and OM and put them on an island somewhere away from our S so they don't have contact with them. Maybe then the S would see what they have right there infront of them.
I know I have become a person only a fool would leave.
I KNOW the part in bold. For me that is. As far as the island concept with the comment in bold... Nah, I'd much rather have them figure it out on their own hard course and make that determination in their full reality. Putting them in isolation is making it easy.
Bottom line, we are worth more than "showing".
Not being a jerk, just have the attitude that "hey we are better than what WE were before". Their loss. We know how to be happy.
Every door that closes, there is a new one that opens.