Most of what you have listed is variations on the same theme: D is wrong. I don't think you'll get many (if any) arguments here, but it ultimately doesn't matter. If your W wants one, she'll get one, and if you mention any of these reasons not to to her, you risk alienating her further. It's ok to say it's not what you want, but moralizing often has the opposite effect of what we want.
You raise some excellent points here. I have not arguments - I GOT nothin'. I was doing a brain dump, but you're they really are variations of the same thing.
Originally Posted By: LearningPatience
I think your M list shows that you've grown and understand what has happened between the two of you. Please, keep up what you are doing here. You're one of the most inspirational people here; your GAL abilities will become that of legend! I have NO doubt that you will emerge from this ordeal a stronger, better person, and I think this will show through to your S also. He's in good hands right now!
Thanks for that LP. You're not doing too bad yourself.
I think the overall message here is to stay the course. Stick with my game plan.
