You are exactly right... I keep saying this is not happening, dont want to believe it, or revelation about other woman. Anxiety builds, reality slams into me and the waves of pain start hitting me in the gut. I can barely eat since i found out about ow. I try and food tastes bad. I usually enjoy food..and have a healthy appetite. I guess this is normal.
girlfriend, I am going to try and put a smile on your face wtih what I am about to say - I am not trying to minimize what you are going though ok? but...
the best thing to happen to me through this whole process? I lost 22lbs in 2 months and i look GOOD! nothing beats a separation/marriage problem diet - NOTHING!!
shoot the first sign that I was actually really happy again I gained weight! I was standing on the scale and thought darn it - where is the anxiety that made me not eat!lol!
one day you 2 will laugh about your "diet" that helped make you look amazing! Now if you are going to come back and say that you are already skinny, well then, boo. I don't have any way of putting a smile on your face!
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12