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Hi Ic4, I'm a newcomer to the forum but can I ask a question?

Has your H done any R talk about his new behaviour (coming around more often, sleeping over)?

I ask because my sitch is similar. One and a half months post-bomb after 3 years of building resentment and distancing from H, eventually exploding into outright anger and separation.

But now, comes back home everyday to see the kids and we have great family times together. In fact we get along with each other much much better than in past 3 years.

But so far, no change in H's talk about R: still 'we are separated' and 'I need to be alone", even "let's get our finances separated" when I brought the topic up on the weekend.