My faith gives me the courage to move forward

[MrBond]

More importantly...what would get her to actually do something, anything, about her situation. Whether it's talking to her H, a L, IC, something.

We can all recommend till we're blue in the face, but unless rysmom CHOOSES to do something rather than lip service, nothing is going to change.

I understand if she's scared. But let's face it, the excuses are getting wilder and wilder. I mean, now she's afraid to do anything because it might cause H a heart attack? I mean, he's living with OW who is offering him emotional, physical and sexual support and she's saying she's afraid of causing him harm? We all know that's just cover for her fear. So unless she chooses to want to stop being miserable, she will remain miserable while her H is having the time of his life.