As LBS's we all often try to pinpoint a day when their marriage started to turn. For me, it was this day. For a variety of reasons that would be too long to list, my XH, being Army, woke up to a new world after that day, and me along with it. I don't know if being able to pinpoint the hour, the day, the month, and the year makes me luckier than anyone else. It is perhaps more a curse than a blessing. How many of us get to turn a finger of blame on an entire religion? LOL
punkin,
I was just catching up on your thread and I had to comment on this...I live in the mid-west and quite frankly didn't know anyone on the east coast at the time or had family in the military, so I can't even imagine the significance 9/11 had on you. It was horrifing for me as a regular american watching it unfold. You were the wife of a military man and the event changed your life completely.
It so amazes me the real life significance 9/11 had on so many that went beyond actually being at the towers the day it happened. it reminds me of skipping a stone across the lake - the ripple affect goes on and on. just like 9/11.
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12