Hey Val...

Just wanted to pop by your thread and tell you I think you're doing fantastic. You've come a long way and are offering great support and feedback to other DBers on the forum...

I love your thought process on this in your post above:

"I'm sure some people that died that day were dealing with our issues. Infidelity, Anger, Abuse, Drugs, Pregnancy, etc. I'm sure there are also their survivors that were also dealing with those issues."

Yes, probably not something an 18yo is likely to process... never mind likely MOST people wouldn't process... fantastic introspection...!

And also, consider how every day, people are being impacted by those thing above... irrelevant of the goings on in the world... while the rest of the world is oblivious...

As we say around here... keep on, keeping on...!