Originally Posted By: gabbysmom23
First, I want to say how sorry I am for the shock and pain you have to go through. You are processing so much right now.

She had to text it to you, couldn't tell you face to face. I don't think she is proud of what she has done, but like 25 sid, no woman really regrets the child they carry. She is I am sure is not having that excitement where she wants to shout from the rooftops she is pregnant.

I disagree for the first time ever with something 25 said.


You don't need the thought of reconciliing and raising that child as your own or in any capacity in conjunction with you W.


Just to be clear, I never suggested he reconcile. (Nor did I oppose it).

read what I wrote. I just asked if he could have forgiven her ML with OM
without a pregnancy and what the implications of that would be.

Also suggested he might want to call his mil...




You need this time to dedicate to you and your D. That's it, really. That's all you need to be thinking about and handling right now.

When you are ready to think about where DBing stands in relation to saving your M, you think about it then.

Right now, plase step back and absorb the information, and do what you need ot do for your and your D


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change