C_S
I am so sorry. How devastating to you. This news would crush many.
I believe you have the tools and the ability to forgive much, even this, if there was a possibility of reconciliation in the future, if you desired it and she did too.

The future is yet unwritten C_S, you have grown so very much.

BITS
Me-51, WAS-52
Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.