When I retained my own L after H filed, he also said I was being unreasonable. He went as far as to break it down financially in an email to me. He said I would be getting half of his paycheck.
I wondered what he expected? I didn't try to screw him over, it was what my L said would be my share in C/S and Spousal Main. dictated by the state, not by me.
When I saw the amount, I said to my L, H is really going to be angry. He said, let him, it is what it is.
My H is a blamer since MLC hit. Nothing is his fault. I'm sure he will be bitter until the last payment is made...