25 and AJM-thank you for the input. There is something comforting about this forum. Your kindness shows through your words and the time it takes to write. Thank you. It could be final if he doesn't fight it in 21 days. Although he told me I have left him no choice as I am being "unresonable" so he says he will have to get a lawyer. Still waiting for that to happen. You are both right he makes no sense. He says it sometimes himself. So, why try to figure it out. I am working on it. He has lied so , so much! MOre than I can even comprehend. I remembered today though while we in the thick of his coming and goings trying to decide what to do he told me "just give me some time- I didn't get like this overnight" THese are statements that haunt me. By support order, I meant a temporary one. Inter mortum?Sp? I don't know all these terms. Basically a temp one until things are settled so I can keep food on the table. I thought he would at least do that for his kids. Oh I am sure OW has needs. Makes me sick to think my money could be going toward that. I want to move. Get out of this house. THe memories bother me and I want a place to call my own with my kids. I am sure he will always be bitter as he is a blamer. So immature. Always knew that. Yuck. But, there will probably always be a little part of me that invisions the day he wants to come back. Isn't that weird? I already can see where and how it will happen. Hmmmm... I have to live in the present! Like my kids. They are the best example of that!!
