jb, I see what realormakebeliev means about a R talk seeming reactionary, and that perhaps it should come before the D papers (if they even are coming).
I don't know, perhaps you could ask her for her LIST. (Don't forget to photocopy it though. Tee hee).
Anyway, just thinking out loud and not telling you what to do...But perhaps you could say that you've had a lot of time to thing about the break-down of your M, and so you were wondering what it is she would want in a better M, BUT preface this all by saying that you just want to be more aware so as to learn from your mistakes. That way she wouldn't know if the list was about her, or a future R. Less pressure that way perhaps. And you might be able to get a clue as to where her head is at...
Anyway, the lists are something H and I have talked about and apparently that darn thing really did make a difference to him, which is why he asked for it about a hundred and one times.
