Dollard

Since you explained your situation with X-MIL, I agree that she probably will never accept OW. (I wish my X-MIL had that kind of backbone!)

My Ex also told me to move on with my life. He later asked me not to move on with my life, but to wait on him. frown

He had no clue what he wanted.

And now that he wants to come back, I'm pretty clueless myself (but leaning in a certain direction ..)

I sense strength in you and I admire that tremendously.

Hugs to you