Marriage to the OW is a fantasy not a reality. Time will eventually destroy their sand castle and I wish you a front row seat to the mess he has made in his life. He has blatant disregard for the purity of marriage and has no clue what it means.
I am waiting for my ex to do the same..
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11