25yearsmlc, if my wife had the attitude about sex and getting help for it that you do, we would have solved our problems years ago.
I should also add that she used to give me HJ's, but wanted nothing in return for herself. But after a while, even that was too much of a chore for her, and she didn't see why I couldn't just take care of it myself. She sometimes gives me a playboy type calendar for my birthday, as if in recognition that such interests on my part are normal, and perhaps also to distract my attention away from getting any ideas about getting frisky with her.
