TM you know I'm new to this, but what's the rush. I would let her file and you go on with your life. She will need to come up with the 5000$ 1st. I think that's what every L is charging. You can save some money and take your time. The D is just a formality (so I tell myself). Regarding her stuff, it depends. If looking a at it hurts throw it out yesterday if not ask her to pick them up in 2 weeks and if she doesn't throw them out or even better if good stuff have a yard sale. That would be like a GAling thing, right? Hang in there this all really svcks.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
