Thanks, V. I appreciate your comments, especially this one:

The question is.. "Do you even care to continue showing that to her?"

At this point, it doesn't matter. Her decision to live with the OM has crossed every boundary I could put down. Divorce is no longer a question of "if" but "when".

So...here are a couple of questions I'd like to toss out there...

Two weeks ago W indicated - by e-mail - she was going to file for a D online(and send the link to me; how very considerate of her). As of today I have heard nothing. So, do I:


H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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