if something happened to h like a heart attack or suicide because i filed, i could never forgive myself
Then you have your answer. Do nothing, ever. Literally.
If he uses up all the money living life with OW, so what?
If there's no money left for you, so what? You'll be fine...you like working a lot.
And Your son? Well....whatever. He can enlist in the military.
All that really matters to you, is that your h not feel uncomfortable. What if he gets physically upset, (or says he did?)
(AS IF YOU COULD POSSIBLY BE THE CAUSE OF HIS PAIN OR KNOW---b/c
HE'D BE HOME BY NOW IF THAT WERE THE CASE...HE LEFT YOU...how much can it hurt him?
OH WAIT...MAYBE THE MONEY ISSUES AND THE LEGAL IMPLICATIONS FRIGHTEN HIM...BETTER TO LEAVE HIM ALONE THAN FORCE HIM TO ADDRESS ANY...You two are the most conflict avoidant people I have heard of... Sorry, but you really flatter yourself too much here...I guess at some level that comforts you.)
This is the worst excuse for inaction I have ever seen. IT'S NOT HEALTHY.
But you have your answer now...Enjoy Stuckville, population YOU.
how's that feel?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
