Valeria all the best, you seem to have a handle on your situation.
I was reading that your husband had a younger ow for the most part of the six years. Did this relationship die a natural death and your husband was able to walk out on her, or did he need to go through the withdrawl that Heartsblessing talks about.
I found it interesting when I read that your husband told you he did not care for his ow. Mine has said the same thing, however mine went on to marry her. My XH has been with ow for four years, always told everyone how he would never marry again, let alone her.
No one has ever met the ow. XH does not talk with anyone from his past life, inculding his children for the past threee years. I am assuming he has either forgotten everyone, or trying very hard to erase everyone from his previous live.