TAMF, You are wise. You have done your work on yourself.

Of course you should not be the path of least resistance.

I could see X coming back at some point for the same sort of reason.

Ultimately, it sounds as if your H needs to do some growing up. You are wise to have him do it without you.

If he is ever able to come up to where you need him to be, you could evaluate who he is then, and who you are.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D