Originally Posted By: West
Yesterday, I was in a pretty spiteful mood as to be expected.


West this is a process and the bottom line is your bottom line.

By that I mean your goal is to get to where you don't feel spite or any other distructive emotion consistently in your life.

To get to where you are making choices and living your life from a your own place.

From who you are and what you believe.

Also to understand that you can't control another person, only yourself.

And that means that until you get control of that (you) and your emotions about the choices your W is making or may make in the future...

You will be stuck in hell. Dictated by the irresponsible whim of your W.

Not your job to teach lessons. Your job to learn your own.

And do better.

So what do you believe about yourself and all of this?

What are you prepared to do for your M and yourself when you are not guaranteed your M can be saved?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am