h always had a addiction to spending every penny that he made. growing up his father saved every dollar that he earned and was very frugal and h resented that his father was like that so now he spends everything. he is never satisfied with what he had he always needed more. he had to impress people by having the nicest car, and all other big ticket items. i was totally the opposite i am frugal and know that the best things in life are free, that you cant buy happiness. our family was the most precious gift i could have had money could not buy that, but he felt money was more valuable and it made me sad he was like that.