She is pregnant

[LearningPatience]

CS,
so sorry bro. I sometimes wondered what I would think if I ever heard (or saw I guess) those words from my W and I honestly still don't know. I do know it would be a kick in the gut at the very least.

I'm also sorry about the timing of this, but you may have a practical/legal matter to look at soon. I don't know how CA is, but my understanding of MI law is that any child born in a M is assumed to be the product of H and W. This has lots of support and other implications. When you are strong enough, please see a L to see how this affects you. You already know how it affects you on a personal level, I think you should find out on a legal and financial level too.

Let us know what we can do to help you through this.